Here’s a secret most people miss: the very best showmen aren’t afraid of criticism — they actually seek it out.

Criticism Is a Shortcut

Most kids don’t want to hear what they did wrong in the show ring. But the ones who are serious about improving their showmanship know that constructive criticism is the fastest way forward. Every true champion has this trait in common: they want to know what to fix, even if it stings.

When I was learning, I went to shows just to watch and learn. Later as a showman, I didn’t just watch judges — I asked them questions after shows. When I was young and shy, my Mom went with me. She taught me to want to know why they placed me where they did. That feedback shaped my habits faster than years of trial and error ever could. Parents you can help your kids – young showmen need your encouragement to get out of their comfort zone.

How to Ask for Criticism

• Ask someone that is actually doing a great job or coaching kids that are winning
• Ask open-ended questions: “What’s one thing I can do better next time?”
• Listen without defending yourself.
• Write it down and practice that one thing until it’s second nature.

This works across every species of livestock. Maybe it’s how you’re driving your pig, how you’re bracing your sheep, how your goat sets up, or how your steer moves out. Judges and experienced showmen have seen it all — and if you’re willing to listen, they’ll hand you the key to beating your competition.

The Mindset Shift

Criticism isn’t a personal attack — it’s a tool. If you can change your mindset to see feedback as free coaching, you’ll be unstoppable. While others avoid correction, you’ll be climbing past them, one adjustment at a time.

Final Thought

The only showmen who never improve are the ones who think they already know it all. If you want to grow, chase criticism.

And if you want a detailed system of how I used advice from judges, breeders, and fellow showmen to win, I share it in my book. I have a book on showmanship in each species going deep into what I wish I knew when I started out. But for now, take this challenge: before your next show, ask someone experienced to give you one piece of advice — tell them you want to hear what they have to say even if it will hurt. And if its the right advice – apply it. That’s how champions are built.